Mental health, Spirituality and other Life Subjects

I've been thinking about mental imbalances, and what they really are, and I think that the solution and healing for them is forgiveness, and pursuing your hearts desires for your life (that are right with you and God).  The pain we experience in life can be so deep that it can be hard to live a good life. Our past mistakes, our fears and judgements about ourselves and others, and not being at peace with our current circumstances cause us to suffer. When we heal ourselves of suffering by forgiving, we heal our life, and this leads us to a blessed life. There is fear in us, which is actually love in pain. It is because of evil circumstances in our past or present, which also makes us fearful of the future. There are some conditions that people have lived or are living through that are extreme in terms of suffering. We can be of better help to ourselves and those suffering by looking into ourselves and our lives, and make the changes we need to make. Doing these things, following our ...

  Why am I afraid of people not liking me? I fear that because the fear is painful, and I am blaming them for the pain I feel. If I think people don't like me to any degree, I feel fear, anger, or hatred, and that pain makes me hate them, and I feel ashamed because of that. All the spiritual texts say that we are to be good to everyone, inside and out, and love everyone, even those who have done wrong. I'm a work in progress. Forgiveness is the medicine I'm using to heal my fears.